Tuesday, September 04, 2012

Inspired Moment 3

Underestimated.

Don't judge the people especially someone you want to have a long good relationship on the first meeting. That won't happen good. Why? You cant judge him for just two or three hours. It takes time. Besides, he probably is doing self-awareness, image-control, or he just too awkward to talk because of, to put in romantic way, love struck at the first sight.

Some people are born with the charms, while others need other ways to charm. Some people are good with words while lack of social communication while others are good even if they just smize, yes smize, a little. Some people are blessed with families who don't care who they are, while others are struggle of be themselves and pretended of having double life.

But underestimating is far greater from that. When you are doing that thing, you don't actually manage to change their negativity into positivity. Underestimate may cause awkward moments when you finally realize, probably, or maybe, you have feelings!

My inspired moment from this post is:
by being underestimation on everything, you limit your view of other positivity. Free yourself of this self-actualization that others are way better than you. It will just cause negativity in your life. Instead, think of other weaknesses as their lack of understanding of limitation of their study. By acknowledging them, you will go from ignorance to helping. Besides, if what you think they are lack off because of your high standard,  it does not mean that their lacking off is negative right? It's just that those small things actually the important part of the big things. Just don't give up.

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